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Fighting the fight

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Article - (13 November 2007) 3 Comments - (Newest, 21 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, sofiamorgan writes:

I've come to the conclusion that if having things turn out the way you wanted them to is a measure of a successful life, then some would say I'm a failure. The important thing is not to be bitter over life's disappointments. Learn to let go of the past, and recognize that every day won't be sunny. And when you find yourself lost in the darkness of despair remember, it's only in the black of night that you see the stars, and those stars lead you back home. So don't be afraid to make mistakes, to stumble and fall, because most of the time the greatest rewards come from doing the things that scare you the most.

Maybe you'll get everything you wish for. Maybe you'll get more than you ever could have imagined. Who knows where life will take you. The road is long and in the end, the journey is the destination. You cannot run away from weakness; you must fight it out or perish. And if that be so, why not now, and where you stand.

These quotes remind me just how much we can all achieve when we want to

‘So much of success is simply not giving up’

’Remember, the only time you fail is when you stop trying’

So lets all keep fighting the fight.

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A male reader, Chemer United Kingdom +, writes (21 November 2007):

Chemer agony auntI agree you have to fight for what you want in life. I do believe that your life is not planned out and you can alter things for the better. When you learn to see things positively then others will be drawn to you. You will attract the right type of person as well in Relationships.

I always have tried to look on the positive side. If i worried about my cousins and how much money they have and success they have had I would be a very bitter Man. Instead I am glad to have a roof over my head and food in my belly and no big debts.

I am separated from my Wife. I hope to Divorce Soon. It did not work out. But I had at least 6 good years out of 9 years together. So really I can't complain. Some people are scared for life. Some people are brain damaged. Some people will never know love or be able to have a partner. So I am grateful for what I do have in life.

Steve

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A male reader, troubledtoomuch United States + , writes (18 November 2007):

troubledtoomuch agony auntThose are very good thoughts. Most of us have to be a lot older than you before we finally realize that.

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A female reader, Oblivia Norway +, writes (17 November 2007):

Oblivia agony auntGood words, sofiamorgan! I'll keep fighting! :)

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