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writes:Sexual Orientation Confusion Question (I am a male). I do not know if I have a Muscle fetish or if I am just gay. How can one tell? I am too afraid to jump of the sexual freedom cliff. I have went out with women and been aroused by kissing them. But on the flip side of the coin super muscular superheroes (built women and men) in spandex really turn me on. It is seeing the invincible and the strong that really gets me hot (lol - I wish women could get as big as men too sometimes). Maybe it's just because I was beaten by bullies at a young age that I love these things... I don't know. I just want to know what to do next. I am getting to old for this (27 year old virgin) and I am tired of feeling different or a like a freak. It sucks that such a small period of your life determines who you are for the rest of it. Any advice?
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reader, Patricko2011 +, writes (21 June 2011):
Patricko2011 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, first of all. I would like to thank you both for taking the time to answer this question. To the first person, "It is normal to be attracted to different things, but try to not let it determine your life"I know, don't seek a label, got it, but my picker of people is all screwed up at this point. To the second person, I would like to answer some of these questions. No, I have not had any physical/sexual contact with guys. Part of me is afraid and part of me is confused. I would say if I think about male bodybuilders and demonstrations of strength then I am aroused by guys. But, when I fantasize about kissing and caressing women, I also get aroused... interesting I think. Sexual stuff aside, my biggest problem is that I cant make emotional connections with men or women. I never look at any guy and think I want to be with him, but it is the same with women. I question what qualities determined my other past girlfriends. Anyway its probably a fetish but damn. What a hell of a fetish - so close to the cub and bear society
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2011): Perhaps you are bisexual?
It's normal to be attracted to different things, but try to not let it determine your life
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (19 June 2011):
 Well... according to dictionary.com the third definition of fetish is:
Any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.
So it sounds like you might just have a fetish. Could it be the spandex (that's common)... but then again so is muscle worship. You might also be bi-sexual. Had you actually had any physical/sexual contact with guys? Do you get aroused by guys?
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