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writes:My girlfriend of 6 months is going on a cruise with her family for a week here soon, I am just kinda of un-easy because of all the stories I've heard about what happens on cruises. I'm her first ever bf and she's never given me a reason to suspect her of cheating or wanting to cheat. She also doesn't talk to any other guys really either as she sticks to a small friend group of girls. So what I'm asking here is, do u guys think from what I've told u, I'm going to be cheated on???Also we are both just 16 Reply to this Question
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reader, Tia Maria +, writes (21 June 2017):
"WITH HER FAMILY" just how much cheating do you think is going to go on here? lol relax-it'll be fine.She's probably worrying the same thing about you while she's away
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 June 2017):
 Are you sure you are ready to be in a relationship with this girl? I mean if she cannot go on a family holiday but you think she will cheat then it sounds to me like you are not ready emotionally for a relationship. You need to be able to trust someone or else their is really no point being in a relationship.
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reader, N91  +, writes (11 June 2017):
 What on earth have you heard about cruises?
If she is going to cheat on you, she will cheat on you whether she goes on this cruise or not.
If you can't trust her then break up with her.
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reader, judgedick  +, writes (10 June 2017):
 you will not get cheated on she is going just for a few days with her family. This is normal things for family to do , from what you say she is a quiet girl and it is just your mind starting to play on you you have a great girl and would do best to not let unfounded worries enter and end up driving her away. Be happy for her ,
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (10 June 2017):
 There is no way to guarantee a "NO you won't get cheated on" but there is also no way of knowing that she would.
BUT... If I had to venture a guess? I'd say no. While being on a cruise can seem romantic, she is there with her parents and will probably be spending most of her time with/around them.
She will only be gone for a week - 7 days.
Have some faith in her feelings for you and trust her to know how to behave when in a relationship.
If you want to be ON her mind while she is gone, WRIE her a sweet letter and tell her she can't open it until day 3 of the cruise (if you two can't text/facetime/call each other while she is gone).
But DO give her the benefit of the doubt.
YOU don't intend on cheating on HER either while she is gone, right? So consider she is as steadfast and faithful as you.
And before you know it she will be back.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (10 June 2017):
 If you can't trust her, you're not mature enough for a relationship. If she cheats, she isn't either.
She hasn't given you a reason to think she would and there aren't any cruise-specific cheating rumours anywhere because cheating can happen on cruises, holidays, at home, at work, online, at parties, etc.
Just trust her or break up. Besides, she's hardly likely to be flirting around her parents anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2017): Don't worry it's a family cruise for goodness sake Not a 18/30 cruise .... they are totally different just relax it's only a wk.busy yourself with mates ...don't fall out over it she's going regardless good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2017): No I dont think she will cheat on you!
She will miss you and look forwards to seeing you again!
Perhaps the days will be long and boring but she will do things like swimming and sunbathing.
She will not turn into a cheater just like that!
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