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Fear of rejection keeps me from asking him out to lunch

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Question - (31 March 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2013)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I like a guy who works at the market I only spoke to him once an basically said he was really funny ever since never spoke to him since now everytime I walk by he stares at me an I turn red an look away also he talks to everyone but me I like him he's funny an I want to ask him to lunch so I could get to know him but I don't want him to reject me also I find every reason to go to the market daily lol

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2013):

Next time he looks at you and stares, hold his eyes for a second then smile, hold for another two seconds and look ahead.... he might want toask you out, but is afraid of you rejecting him. At the moment, he probably thinks you are not interested.

SMILE!!!!

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A male reader, BiteMe United States +, writes (1 April 2013):

BiteMe agony auntWell this guy seems to like you. If it were me I wouldn't mind. Rejection isn't all that bad, sometimes we just don't get what we want.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (31 March 2013):

Periods are important; they help your writing be more readable.

By letting your fear take over you are rejecting him. Life is too short to spend it afraid of doing what you want. Would you rather be shopping at the market to see him and comfortable because you never got rejected, or would you rather be with him, together because you had the courage to ask him out?

Keep in mind that rejection would only mean that he didn't think you two would be compatible for whatever reason. It wouldn't indicate that you were ugly, too short/tall/fat/skinny/etc.

Good luck!

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