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writes: I have fallen madly in love with my best friend who I used to work with. The problem is, she has a girlfriend. She came to my university to visit me for the weekend and she told me then. Since then we have gone out together and she has told me she is bisexual. She makes me feel so nice when we are together and I have told my friends that I like her and they think that we would be great together as we know each other so well. We have lots in common, we cant stop talking to each other, we love each other's company and we just get on like a house on fire basically.The thing is, I aint the most attractive guy in the world and I know she can do better easily, and I know if I tell her how I feel she will most definitly turn me down and I will lose a good friend. I have been too scared tell her how I feel but also tell her that I still want to be friends. I am just so confused; I dont know what to do. If anyone can help, I really am confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2007): i have this same predicament i am just younger (14) wierd how we have the same problem i mean your thing is almost EXACTLY (cept im in high school and her girlfriend lives far away) like mine so if anyone else can help on this please do cause i too am scarred to tell her though i do want her to know
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reader, Jordan +, writes (22 December 2005):
 Look all you can do is either stay there having your feelings all bottled up inside of you for the rest of yoor life or you can take a chance and tell her and tell her you don't want it to ruin your friendship and basically tell her what you wrote on here if i were you i'd tell her and it doesn't matter how you look if she's as nice as she sounds she won't do anything ignorant and if she doesn't feel the same then tell her you don't want it to ruin your friendship and move on but if she does feel the same then you'll be happy and forget what her girlfriend thinks it's your choice k i hope i was some help
Love always,
Jordan
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