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Fallen for b/f's brother?!

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Question - (10 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i need help i really really fancy my boyfriends brother. we both had a night we shared for a kiss and a lil sexual encounter. we both didnt regret it but we both said it feels so right but so wrong with the complications. now i cant him out my head. shoul i tell him how i really feel or do i just leave the situation. help me

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A male reader, idoneitagain Australia +, writes (10 June 2011):

There is often a heightened sexual attaction between people and their partner's siblings, because they are forbidden territory, off limits. Most people don't go there because they would not want to betray their brother or sister in that way, it is too risky, but your bf's brother has done it to his brother with you.

What you do from here depends on what you actually want. Do you want to be with your bf still? Do you want to be with his brother? Are you in love with either of them?

If you want to be with the brother, you can let him know and find out if he wants to be with you. If he does, I suggest you both tell your bf that you are both really sorry, but you and his brother want to be together and it is just something that has happened, and take it from there. Don't expect a happy response.

If the brother doesn't want a relationship, you both have to decide if you are going to tell your bf or not anyway, and you will need to decide if you still want to try and have a relationship with your bf. These are probably difficult decisions, take your time to make the one that is true to who you are.

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A female reader, Sincerely Yours United States +, writes (10 June 2011):

Sincerely Yours agony auntHow do you honestly expect to keep a relationship with someone on whom you have cheated both emotionally and physically?

You're asking us this question as if you're the subject of the issue.. like it's all about you. But it's not: at this point, it's about your boyfriend, and his feelings and what's best for him. And what's best for him, is not you. So whether you tell him how you feel or not, you should obviously discontinue your relationship with him.

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