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anonymous
writes:If your ex partner split up with you six months ago for someone else, would you consider ever getting back with them?Any answers to this would really help me decide what to do in my situation, thanks
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (10 May 2009):
 I don't get back together with my ex partners for ANY reason.
Once a relationship breaks up, you can never repair the trust and loyalty back to what it was in the beginning. There's always going to be the fear in the back of your head, that 'what if?' question. No thanks...I don't need that kind of drama.
Thing is, it doesn't matter WHY you two broke up in the end. The fact is, you broke up, and once you get to that point in your relationship there's usually a really good reason why you two shouldn't be together anymore. Getting back together with someone after a breakup is just inviting more trouble.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (10 May 2009):
 No, I wouldn't.
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (10 May 2009):
 Well ... my partner did leave me 7 months ago for someone else. Even tho the whole story is much more dificult than normal and he did have family and religious reasons to do so ... I still consider it as "he left me for someone else" ...
So I will answer your guestion.
Yes, I think I would. If he came back ot me and worked hard on getting my trust back and showed me that he really wants to be with me. Than I think I would, because I still love him, and he was always the man I wanted to be with for the rest of my life.
the thing is .. everyones story is different. Like I said, he did leave, because his family and religion made him to, and it was the best for him ... its heartbreaking, but I couldnt do anything about it. I was hoping, he would stand up for me and stay w me even if it ment loosing his family...but I guess he wasnt strong enough.
Maybe you should write more about what have happened between you 2
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reader, Lina319 +, writes (9 May 2009):
 Honestly no. If a man leaves me for another woman, its quite clear I am not what he wants. Plus its just giving the man a free pass. You leave me, kiss, hug, talk to someone new without any thought as to how I am pulling thru with the breakup, then when things get rocky with your new love, you come back to me because you realize what you missed out on. Oh well, screw you then. The only way I would even consider taking a man back is if he went thru hell and back to prove to me that I was the one he wanted, and even then im not too sure id budge.
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