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writes:Was with my ex for five years, he keeps in regular contact via IM. He ended the relationship. I then deleted him off my contacts as I was finding it too difficult. He always answers my calls and texts back when I contact him. When we bump into each other, he seems more awkward than me, although we talk as if nothing had happened, he's unable to keep eye contact with me. Does he still care? He also questions me if he has heard I've kissed someone else, he always knows what I am up to, yet I hear nothing if his pursuits. We have split four months. Is there a chance for us? Does he still care? YOur answers would be really helpful :)
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reader, MsVick  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 I don't think he cares like he used to and his questioning of who you've kissed etc is strange, that is none of his business. It's almost as if he uses that to keep tabs on you, that is a control issue that you don't need. I frankly I would hold him out at arms length and move on, he doesn't need to know your business after all he is the one who walked away.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 November 2010):
It sounds like he cares as a friend, but not much more. The truth is, the only way you'll find out whether he cares is to ask. Maybe he does, and maybe he wants to get back. At the same time, maybe he is just a friend now. Like I say though, it sounds more like he's a friend more than anything else now.
You need to talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): After five years together I am sure he still has feelings for you but that doesn't mean there is a chance of getting back together. Its lovely that he wants to continue friendly contact but if you interpret this as a change of heart you will find it harder to get over him and it sounds as if you are looking for glimmers of hope. Who knows what the future holds but for now I would take his friendliness at face value and accept he is an ex so you can move on. And you will.
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