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anonymous
writes:Ok I have a girlfriend right? And we hook up or cuddle or whatever you want to call it, and when we do it gets really intense but, I havent had sex with her yet. Shes had it before but Im still a virgin. Now the thing is a couple of hours after we've hooked up I feel sick! I mean my entire body hurts and my "part" hurts real bad also. Its not because shes grabbed it or anything it just does... This has happened a couple of times before with 1 of my ex's but Im afraid that this is going to affect me in the future in case I decide to have sex with my current girl... can anyone tell me why this happens?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): It sounds like your getting blue balls. If you have an erection lasting more than an hour and you don't cum then you will get a swelling in your testicles and it's gonna hurt. I've never had swelling but I know the exact pain your talking about, stuff like dry humping is great but if you never get to finish your gonna hurt later.
To remedy this until you and your girlfriend start taking things further, try just masturbating afterward.
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reader, q1605 +, writes (3 August 2009):
 Odd that your suggestion of four hours is the amount of time the makers of viagra use to prompt the user to get medical attention. That is to seek help if you have an erection of over four hours. If I have a four hour erection I will be alerting the media.
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (2 August 2009):
 Well, I stand corrected, The Ice did work for me once, it was more like 4 hours, and nothing shattered. I can certainly see that it wouldn't work for everyone. The alternative method is usually effective. Sometimes needs more than one dose.
FA
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reader, q1605 +, writes (1 August 2009):
If you are not a wanker you might want to look into becoming one and embrace the wanker within.. Join the wankerhood. After my vasectomy with no pain meds for the road, I was instructed to lie on my back with an ice pack on my nuts. Now boys..... let me tell you. 72 hours of an ice pack on the twins does not provide relief for a goddamn thing. Congestion or otherwise. Ice packs on your nuts wont stop pain, throbbing, pulsating effects, prickly rash, itching, swelling or the heart break of Psoriasis. It doesn't focus the mind, relieve tension, thwart paranoia, or provide any calming effect whatsoever. The thing that feels most like the feeling you get after about the first twenty four hours of having your nuts in cold storage is much the same feeling as having them dipped in a cannister of liquid nitrogen. You are afraid to sneeze for fear of them shattering into little jagged pieces and hearing them tinkling to the floor. I sound off about a lot of things I don't know jack shit about. Sometimes if I am bored I 'll make something up. But when it comes to frozen freeze dried nut sack I know what I am talking about. AND you need to listen to me.
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (31 July 2009):
Oh yes, Blue Balls or pelvic congestion. Look it up. if you are not a wanker, or you object to that solution, an ice pack on the affected part will give you some relief.
FA
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reader, q1605 +, writes (31 July 2009):
Phil, Just a little case of mood poisoning... Must be something I hate.
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reader, Uncle Phil  + ♥, writes (31 July 2009):
 I'll have some of what you're smoking, q1605! Must be top grade stuff.
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reader, q1605 +, writes (31 July 2009):
Somebody took the last wafty crank. There was one left before I went out. When I got back it was gone.
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reader, Uncle Phil + ♥, writes (31 July 2009):
Yep - classic 'Blue Balls' symptoms. Go and have a wafty crank and it'll disappear quite quickly.
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reader, sarcy24 + ♥, writes (31 July 2009):
 This is totally normal and used to happen to me when I was young. it is a build up of adrenaline and sexual tension and with women gives them intense stomach ache and sickness. This passes if you masterbate - all totally natural.
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reader, guillaume +, writes (31 July 2009):
 Hi,
i'm gonna guess on this but it may be what they call "blue balls."
The body is aroused and let's just say it aches to not relieve itself. After she has gone, try masturbatiing a little and this should help with relief for the moment. don't worry, i still get it at my age with my partner.
hope this helps, G.
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (31 July 2009):
 maybe your sexually frustrated and want to have sex with her have u considered it
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