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Everything works but my inner labia is very small. Anyone else have the same problem??

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Question - (25 January 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Hello,

I'm just wondering if it's normal to have a really small inner labia, like i mean really small, and the general opening area is quite small too.

I don't think it looks right. Everything works, but i don't like the appearance, and my boyfriend can't understand why i don't want him down there lol.

Anyone have the same issue?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008):

i wish i was the same. i have very big labia, and i'm convinced they arent sexy. im terrified of letting my bf down there. i wish i was confident enough to not care.

in my opinion, youre lucky. dont let it effect you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008):

Hey just letting you know your not the only one, i thought that there was something wrong with me also because mine are small also.. very small.. seemed as if all the ones ive seen in pictures were so much 'more' than what i had and i felt 'inadequate' in a way.. but the more i read the more im understanding that its just in natures creativity for everyone to be thier own person, and you should be proud of your body. =) have a nice day!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008):

I have a 1/4 inch labia...I've been active since the age of 17 teen...I'm presently 32 years old. I've had 31 lover's and and each everyone of them loved my labia...Through these relationship most of the male complaints were that they didn't care for labias longer than an inch...the shorter the better...they felt my clitoris was just that more visible and available. If anything the long labia majora was more of a turn especially for oral sex.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008):

hey I have the same problem, like my labia is only half the length is should be and is small, it doesn't stick out very far. I can still achieve orgasm and stuff so that's not a problem but my boyfriend has noticed that it's only half the size it should be and I've had a previous partner tell me it looks small too. I don't know why it's like that but I've recently found out I have low oestrogen and progesterone levels so because of that they might not have developed fully. Maybe you should consider getting a blood test to check your homone levels too. The doctor can then give you some hormone tablets, hopefully they'll make the labia develope fully.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States + , writes (26 January 2008):

DoubleM agony auntSpread it and invite him there girl! You are old enough. You're okay no matter what you think about it's looks.

They are all beautiful, and come in every conceivable shape and look.

I can't remember a single one I didn't love and want to enjoy with my eyes, tongue and well . . . you know..

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A female reader, nailglitter18 Iceland +, writes (25 January 2008):

nailglitter18 agony auntI think very few women like their own structure down under. I, frankly, hate mine, but my guy loves every bit of me. So... what can I say? As long as I don't have to look at it, and there's nothing that seems medically wrong, I guess it's all ok.

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom + , writes (25 January 2008):

Annalisa agony auntI dare say, if you thought women's bits looked good, you would be a lesbian! Don't worry! If he's more than happy to have a look and a lick, let him loose!

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A male reader, troubledtoomuch United States + , writes (25 January 2008):

troubledtoomuch agony auntI doubt that he will care at all. I never cared what any of my past girlfriends looked like down there and don't remember at all. I only know how my wife looks because I see it every day. Don't deprive yourself of the enjoyment of allowing him down there if he wants. Try to encourage him to give you oral sex, not discourage it. You and he both are really missing out on some great enjoyment.

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A female reader, Cherriepie United States +, writes (25 January 2008):

Cherriepie agony aunti think most guys like smaller labia, than bigger. Its a guy thing. dont be shamed about it, be happy. i think most guys just like it tighter anyway. i thnk its safe to say some women can celebrate their smallness while men celebrate their largenss. Be happy hunny, this is nothing to be worried about.

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A female reader, XxAngelDust89xX United States +, writes (25 January 2008):

XxAngelDust89xX agony auntThe size of your "parts" vary from woman to woman. Some women's labia is so small you cant even see it, and some women have very large labias. It's just one more thing about you that makes you special an unique. (Quick hint, some of men don't really care what girls look like down there, or some just love you too much to think it matters.)

Besides, think about waht ur missing out on!! ;)

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