A
male
age
30-35,
*droising
writes:Hey, sorry for being dramatic about this but I didn't know where else to go for help, thanks for reading.I've been with my boyfriend since 2009, and he is 3 years older than me.I came out when we started dating, and it was hard, very difficult with my family, with myself, but we went through it together. During these 3 years we've had lots of problems but we've figured out how to solve them, we have great communication, romance, happiness, it's a perfect relationship, we've been through a lot!I'm about to finish college, he graduated 2 years ago, he's a great job, what else can I say he's a perfect guy.The problem is that recently we've started thinking of moving together (we currently live with our families) and I'm freaking out, first I thought like my life was over, no more people to know, I realized that he was the person "i'll be with the rest of my life" it was very shocking, but somehow it stoped bothering me.But a few weeks ago, I started to feel like he doesn't cares so much about what I want, or feel. We were talking about a business I wanted to start for the two of us, and he just got mad and almost shut me up, most of the time he's really supporting, but at that moment, I felt like if I was alone in "our" future.I've had thoughts of cheating, I couldn't do it, but I've been flirting with some guys, and feel great about myself!, I even added a guy I met online and we've been talking every night for the past couple weeks. Honestly I don't know what I'm doing, I'm so confused, I know I love him but, I can't see myself with him right now, I can see us in ten, twenty years but right now I feel trapped like I don't own me, like I've lost my individuality, but when I'm with him everything is perfect! please, someone advise me ! And I don't have the guts to speak about this with any of my friends because everyone is crazy about him, and think we have the perfect relationship.What should I do?Thank you so much for taking the time for reading my problems.
View related questions:
flirt, met online, trapped Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Serpico  +, writes (30 January 2013):
Sure sounds like you're asking us to give you an excuse to move on from the "perfect" guy....
|
