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Everyone, including me, thought he was 28. Now I find he's almost 40!

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Question - (21 May 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2005)
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He's 19 years older than me........

I've been seeing my boyfriend for well over a year now. When we first got together i thought and was also told by his friend that he was only 28. 3 months later i asked him what he wanted for his birthday, he told me nothing and to save it for the year after as it was his 40th. Why did he do this to me as i'm now struggling to tell my family his real age. I love him and the age doesnt bother me but it will with my family. Am i just been childish?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2005):

stay with him! dont pander to worries from what your parents might think, if this guy is for you, then he isnt for your parents, if you want them to know tell them, but stick up for him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005):

You said you asked his FRIEND his age...You need to talk to him about himself, not others. If his age doesn't matter to you, that's great. Why is it necessary to tell mom and dad the boyfriend's age anyway?...BUT consider how the age difference will affect the rest of your life . When you are 40 and he is 60 will it matter then??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2005):

You have no idea what else you might think about him that isn't true. Make sure he isn't hiding anything else.

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A reader, valleygirl +, writes (21 May 2005):

Well girl u should stick with ur boyfriend as u love him doo much.i think u should take ur boyfriend to ur parents and show them how good,helpful and trustworthy is ur boyfriend is i m sure ur parents will understand ur struggle for ur true love still if he is 19 years older than u. go for it girl talk to ur family and see how do they react.I m sure something positive will occour in ur life..

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