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Every time we row, he gets in contact with his ex and tells me how much more beautiful and better she is...

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Question - (16 February 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2006)
A female , *anielle13 writes:

I have been with my boyfriend for approximately 8 months, but we were together before as well! We have dated on and off since I was 14 (22 now). I need some advice.

We get on brilliantly but row when we have a drink. I get mad coz whenever we have a minor disagreement he texts his ex, asking if she misses him and such. This makes me feel really awful.

He said to me the other day, (he was drunk) that before we got back together he could have been with the most beautiful girl in the world, but he chose me! As you can appreciate, I told him where to go, and left! He has been trying to make amends since but I feel insecure. He said he just said it to hurt me and that it's not true. Help. Thanks for your time.

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A male reader, ourchosenpaths +, writes (18 February 2006):

ourchosenpaths agony auntHe sounds like an asshole

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A female reader, amandairene +, writes (18 February 2006):

Get rid of him. The other girl has the right idea. Maybe she got rid of him, and he is with you becasue she doesn't want him? I'm sure you're lovely, so get rid of him. What a child!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2006):

I agree, this guys' an absolute A'hole!...no decent, considerate guy would pull out such a dirty line. It's not smooth, it's not caring...bin him! There are lots of other genuine guys out there! It's also important to listen to yourself and be HONEST with yourself...like BabyGirl said, you must be thinking to yourself 'this can't be love'...he obviously doesn't value you enough. It's possible he doesn't feel valued either, but still he should talk to you and/or sort out his problems instead of taking it out on you. Sam x

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