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writes: Hi im Fourteen, and here is my problem.at the start of year 10 i found out this boy liked me.So i was talking to him on msn and he admitted it himself, so i was thrilled and told him i felt the same.Anyway as time went on we were only talking on msn, and that's about it (Even tho we go to the same school)Evryone told us it was about time we went out, cause it's obvious that we liked eachother.The thing is, we are both really shy, and didnt have the confidence to go up to eachother and have a conversation.So we were talking on msn, and he said "You're the only girl that i've liked and felt shy around".2 months went on, and still we were only talking on msn, so i told him, i don't see the point in carrying on what we have, if it's not going anywhere, and he was like we will talk i promise, but i decided I can't wait around for him.So Our Thing Ended.But My problem is,I Like him again, but since we stopped talking, we have been avoiding eachother in school, and don't talk on msn or txt. (Only Now and then on bebo)How can i regain a connection with him, without things turning out like they did last time (Wich was only talking on msn)I Really want things to work between us.So Any ideas on how i can start talking to him again, and make genra conversation in school?Hope This Makes sence =]Lots of Love x3
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reader, spartanarmyalex118  +, writes (15 March 2008):
 well done now all you have to do is just keep talking to him and see were it goes. just take it one step at a time and things should go well. tips for talking:
see what e is inteearsted in and talk to him about them and your intreasts. ask him on a date to your local youth club to get to now hin better. good luck and thanks for the followup its nice to hear my adivice helps!! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): That's great news!!!
Thanks for letting us know!
Hope it works out well for u two :-)
xx Hope xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankYoou Foor Thee Advice Everyone The advice given Actually Helped me />I Started talking to him online on Saturday Night.Then we went out today And he said that he still likes me .. So now i can say i like him too beacause i know were talking in person Thanks Again x3
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reader, Variety +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Try it face to face. Or just say 'hi, I miss talking to you, how are you?' on msn. Ask him if he wants to meet up just the two of you (this would be best out of school). If you make plans to meet up then you will have a fixed point when the two of you have to get past the shyness. Hope this helps. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): Just try speaking to him at school, nothing too forced, just like a 'hi, how r u?' now and again and gradually build up to more. Start to talk to him on msn again and perhaps say to him that u miss being in contact with him. He probably feels the same way.
It really sucks being shy! But the way I try to see it now is that in a few years you'll regret something that u don't do. So in your case, u may regret not speaking to him and think back and say 'gee i wish i'd tried to be less shy!'.
I hope that will help you a bit!
xx Hope xx
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reader, spartanarmyalex118 +, writes (8 March 2008):
frist of if your talking on msn and havent been on actual dates they it might not go any were. but beacuse your both shy why not go up to him and ask him to lacoal youth club or to a roller disco and realax just talk to him about how you feel and ask him if he wants to meet up in town on the weekend. and have laugf get an ice cream and have nice walk and just talk to him. if you need any more help send me an email. :) :)
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reader, Mr.Worry  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Well,it sounds like he likes you as much as you like him.If you want him,you are going to have to tell him face to face.I know you're shy,I was too at your age.Think about this.Whats the worst thing that could happen?How many times in life does the worst happens?Not often.Nothing ventured,nothing gained. Good luck!
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