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Emotional after I climax- is this normal?

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Question - (11 August 2017) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2018)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is embarrassing but I have been abstinent for almost a year and a half because I have my guards up and I have been hurt and it's hard for me not to attach feelings when I sleep with someoene so I don't have sex unless I'm in a relationship- well since I haven't met anyone I masterbate a lot and every time I climax - I get sad after and cry - is this normal - I tear up after it - ji just get these rush emotions of loniless

Has anyone experienced this- I do think about just the loneliness in experience but it comes as a rush- I've never had this happen in sex - it's just when I'm alone and masterbate

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2018):

Okay,SO do not get stressed about this. From personal experience it is okay to be emotional after masturbating. This could be that your are feeling lonely or upset because you are still single. If you have someone you have known for a while that you like, you could talk to them about more sexual things to see if they are interested in having sex with you. Do not worry. :)

Hope i helped :)

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A male reader, CMMP United States + , writes (11 August 2017):

My wife regularly cries after having an orgasm. She just read something about it and apparently it's somewhat common for women.

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