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writes:Hey, I recently added a question which I had great feedback on, but... things have changed loooooadz! lol. Firstly, I fancy her and she's admitted to that at some point she feels like we more than just mates. But we haven't got together cause we are both unsure of whether it would work and if it would totally ruin our friendship. Any ideas on how we can come to a conclusion?Below is my previous question,if anyone was interested thanxhi dear cupid, i was wondering if i could have as many thoughts on my recent expirences as possible from men and women!!!well i have a friend who i really care for dearly although we are not going out and never have we have shared sum passionate kisses. but im okey with this because its someone i trust and its like "practice" well sort of friends with benefits as we are both 2 busy for a seirous relationship its not as if were "f*** buddies" and im still a virgin + jus 2 add im 16.but on thursday we met up n she came rnd after a long time part n we had a good time n she started nibling kissing my ear and i REALLY luved it i mean my arm was up in goospimples staruight away and hairs on end is that normal? but she done that a lot and then moved on to my nippples once or twice, and she kept playin with my belly button hair. but i feel i should add we didnt kiss and that she is also 16. So what do u think does she have any bad intentions? or secret feelings or is it normal 2 have close girl mates u do this sort of thing with? are we doing anyting worng? am i doing anything wrong or is she? also is a "ear fetish" normal many thanx to those of you who reply
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (12 July 2006):
 The best relationships start as friendships, become relationships and are still best friends forever.
You're on the verge of a relationship where a person questions themselves should I or shouldn't I?
Sometimes your head will talk you out of it with all the cons and worries, and other times it will scream go for it!
Only you can answer that and only you can do something about it.
If you want her go for it, throw caution to the wind, tell her you want to try, buy her flowers, ask her father if you can date her, ask her out on a date, or whatever will convince her your serious and want to make a go of it.
If you fear losing her as a friend and feel it is not worth the risk then don't. Keep the friendship alive until your out of high school and then it has a chance of blossoming into something more permanent than a high school romance.
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