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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and we have a good relationship and get on great, apart from when we go on a night out and drink. We aren't violent or abusive to each other but we both wind each other up or start talking about certain issues with have with each other and before you know it we have fallen out. They aren't massive stand up rows but we ignore each other and it ends up us lying in bed at the end of the night and he will never initiate sorting things out so I get even more annoyed. Next day it's usually sorted out and he'll be apologetic and it won't really get mentioned again. I'm just concerned that it's getting nearly every time we go out. We go out about every 2 weeks and with a group of friends, they must think we are a right pair and that we aren't right for each other. I know the alcohol is an issue and both of us agree it heightens the problem and makes every things seem 10 times worse.Ha anyone else ever had this problem? What do you suggest as ways to combat it? We don't want to never drink again just don't want it to escalate and spoil the night.
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