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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok so i keep dreaming about having sex with my ex. The dreams are always the same, we have sex, i freak out and tell him it means nothing and that it feels wrong. Then i go back to my current boyfriend make love to him and everything is right. I don't understand why this happens. Me and my ex are good friends and since we have broken up ( 3 years ago) i have had a couple of minor indiscretions with him. I cheated on a boy with him, i don't know why. Im not attracted to my ex at all and i was always in love with my now boyfriend, The guy i was seeing was just a distraction. The sex felt awful, i felt so dirty and i didn't enjoy it at all right there and then i told him it was a mistake and that i didn't feel that way about him. The second indiscretion was just under a year ago me and my current boyfriend fell out ( its been complicated but we were not together in any way at that time) and we hadn't actually spoken for 6 months. I let my ex finger me. I don't know why i think maybe it was feeling depressed and un wanted but i have no interest in him sexually. Again i made it clear it was a mistake and that i was very much in love with "W" despite the fact that he and i weren't talking or together. My current boyfriend is the love of my life and since we started being a couple again i haven't been near anyone in any kind of sexual manner. The sex with "W" is the best ever and i love him so much but i don't understand why i keep dreaming about having sex with "B". When im on my own and i think about sex it is always with "W" and even in the past when i was with "B" i used to fantasise about "W" i just want to stop having these dreams.
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reader, goowes  +, writes (1 May 2010):
 Its just a dream, look in one of those dream symbol books It could be about lack of closure or loss of something.
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