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writes: I was staying over at my best friends house about 3 weeks ago nd we ended up kissin and touchin each other nd since then we both hav been taking it further every day. She slept at mine last night nd we ended up totally naked nd touching each other but we didnt hav sex. Does all of this make us lesbians or not?
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reader, alexanderhan  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 no, it doesn't make you a lesbian unless you are emotionally and physically attracted to girls or her..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): No deffinatly not, unless you feel sexually attracted to other girls.
i did exactly the same thing about three weeks ago and one thing just seemed to lead to another through silence, it was weird but felt really good. now every time we are alone together we kiss and touch eacother.We justle tickle eacother gently and make each othe tingle and it feels so good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007): yes i think that this wuld make you lesbians unless u are attracted to men which wuld make u bi
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (8 May 2006):
 It doesn't actually mean you are or you aren't...you both need to talk about this with eachother...don't label yourselves just yet....do you have feelings for her?
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reader, iamsoscrewedup333 +, writes (8 May 2006):
It could mean you are, or not... I would say not to get caught up in labeling yourself or your friend. You seem to be exploring your sexuality and there is nothing wrong with that. I say if you like what you are doing and it seem to be "right" to you then go for it and don't worry about labeling it
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (8 May 2006):
 You are still trying to figure out your sexuality so don't label yourself lesbian, bisexual or heterosexual. You will learn to 'know' where your preference rests as you get older.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (7 May 2006):
 Well, it could mean you are lesbians or it could make you bisexual. Lesbians are women who only like sex with other women, if you are bisexual then you like sex with both men and women.
Personally I was always a little jealous of people who are bisexual: it gives you twice as many people to become attracted to (and more...)
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