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Does this guy want a relationship? Or was it just a laugh!

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Question - (1 June 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2006)
A female , *icci writes:

Hi, i have been having some work done on my home by my landlord, a few months ago his friend came with him, we chatted and got on well, then i didnt see him for a few months as he has children he sees regulary. last weekend he came with my landlord to do more work, we were more chatty this time, there was flirting, but i took it all as just good fun. later on in the afternoon he was repairing my bedroom window, i had to go into my room, when i did we were chatting and laughing, then he began to walk over to me, he had a smile on his face, and i just knew he was going to kiss me, as he got up close to me my son came up the stairs so we both jumped back, and acted like nothing happened. he and my landlord left that night to return the next day. 2 of my kids were out on the sunday with there gran, so i was alone with just my eldest son and my landlord and his friend. we continued talking and joking throughout the day, then during the afternoon we were in my kitchen larking about fighting, and just being silly, when my landlord went out of the back door, his friend asked me for a hug, he came over to me and hugged me, but kissed me also. i backed off as my son was in the next room and the landlord had just gone out of the back door. i said "my son is in there and your mate is outside the back door" he went to the room where my son was and shut the door, then shut the back door, then came back to me and kissed me again. we kissed for a while, then we heard the landlord coming so we stopped, and just carried on what we were doing. i knew he wanted to leave by 5 but when the time came i was busy and couldnt speak to him, i heard my landlord tell him that he would drop him off now, this was at 5 15 but he said no he would wait longer, i got the feeling he was waiting for me so he could talk to me, but 15 minutes later i was still busy, and my landlord said he had to drop him off as he still had things to do when he got back. we couldnt speak so he waved goodbye to me and i winked at him and said goodbye. now my head is iin a spin, does he like me? was he waiting to try and talk to me? my landlord is back in 2 weeks but i dont even know if his friend will be coming with him, was it just a kiss? just a laugh? im so confused, any help would be appreciated. thank you.

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A female reader, micci +, writes (2 June 2006):

micci is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for answering guys, ive decided to wait untill next weekend and see if he comes again with my landlord, if he does ill see what happens, if not ill try and get his number from my landlord, its just a waiting game right now, but ill keep you guys posted, and let you know what happens, thanks again. x

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2006):

smeedle agony auntSounds good to me, just make sure he does not have a partner, if not then go for it, ask your landlord if he is single and ask were he drinks etc, if you are really brave you could pass on your number and ask him to phone or text.

Nothing wrong with you making the first move!!

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A female reader, ask paige United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2006):

ask paige agony auntwell i think you need 2 follow your feelings because he obviously likes you and i think your landlords friend is in to you aswell so i have 2 say you have 2 go with the person you think you will be most happier with and that your childern will get along with and your kids feelings is a big part of your happiness and theres good luck remeber follow your heart paige xx

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A female reader, camille United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2006):

camille agony auntYou sensed a spark and he kissed you....I'd guess he likes you. There's absolutely nothing wrong with asking your landlord for his friend's number. (maybe do it over the phone rather than in 2 weeks). Why not just go right ahead and ask him out for a date and see what happens. If not, who knows what you may have missed? Or when you'd see him again? Don't leave it up to him, he may have been waiting for you that day but thinks you're not that interested. Take it steady and don't do anything you're not ready for. You both have kids and so lots of dates away from the house may help you know for sure how you feel and to find out how he feels.

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