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female
age
30-35,
*unkyness
writes:So theres this guy who i've been talking to him for some time now and i always get a vibe that he likes mebut, he has a girlfriend...here is the story:I was talking to him for a like month and i was getting a vibe that he liked me. He said he wanted to go watch a movie with me, when we talked it was for hours, and he was flirting. (or so my friends said)i was really happy. Then one morning i went on facebook and his status went from single to in a relationship. I was really hurt, but i got over it.not too long after possibly a month or so he was single again.I didn't make the first move. He did. (like a week after becoming single)He started texting me a again. and like before our conversations lasted for hours and he was flirting. we talked for 3 weeks like this...then one day his status went from single to in a relationship...with the same girl...i dont knowim just really hurt right now. i'm not sure if he likes me or...whatever.maybe he's just a flirt?am i looking to much into his kindness?...maybe he really just want to be friends but nothing more?(i didn't really like him until my friends said he liked me -_-)any suggestions would be greatly appriciated.sorry for any misspelling or gramar issues...im not in the mood for looking over it.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (22 July 2009):
 hiya
Just bite the bullet and ask him out, ask him if he is in a relationship as you notice his status changes, if he is not then ask him out, if he is then wish him luck and move on and stop checking him as he maybe confused enough with a relationship that he cannot make up his mind with, you need to remember that you may get this guy but he is likey to be on the rebound and that has its own set of issues.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): i think your friend is just a flirt, or is just despret and cant stand not having a girlfriend. You could do better :D x
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reader, Alexiedos +, writes (22 July 2009):
 Well it seems like this guy must suffer from self esteeme issues as whenever he's alone he needs you to talk to to make him feel sexy again or something. You dont want to be a rebound or cheat because you will not win. My boyfriend once told me because we were fighting it made him talk to another girl on face book (which to me looked like flirting) i think whoever he's with he's definately into and she is pushing him away and clawing him back. I wouldnt get involved unless you want to take a risk and maybe get hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2009): ur sure he has a gf? he could mean u
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