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writes: I have feelings for a guy who goes to my college. I have the worse guy problems and I can never tell how a guy feels about me. When we first talked online he showed a lot of interest and even came to my dorm for the rest for the night (to watch a movie nothing more). The next day we exchanged phone numbers and over the thanksgiving break i called him twice but he didnt answer. We came back from break and I rarely ever see him (even before we started talking) so its hard to get anything going with him. I also don't know how he feels about me and I dont want to push it either I'm trying to stay cool and some people will tell me to just chill but thats easier said then done. Of course, I would never let any guy know I'm sweating him but I think if he wasn't interested he wouldnt have been talking to me online before the break or yesterday (after the break) or come to my room. Right? What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Learning2Love +, writes (29 November 2006):
 Chill. You're going to get yourself in a flat spin.
Firstly, you must0believe in yourself.
But no matter who the guy is and you've shown interest (remember some guys are a little slow on the uptake) and he doesn't make his move, then you should just move on, the attention that yot'll generate from other guys should kick him into high gear - there are no guarantees - but at least you'll know where you stand and can still be friends with him, maybe at a later stage you 2 will be in a stage of your life where you'll hit it off.
No harm done.
There are exceptions but they involve you making the first move - even just kissing him in the middle of a magic moment!
Again, no harm done. If he doesn't reciprocate - what's the worst that can happen? You've stolen a kiss. Go girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): Does adrien, my boyfriend have feelings for me or is he using me for sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2006): does adrian have feelings for me or not?
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