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writes:I recently (2 months) have broken up with my girlfriend over a very near 4 years, and well we broke up because she cheated on me, and the fact that after I gave her another chance she wanted to leave the relationship as she had no feeling whatsoever. We had quite a few real nasty conversations because of all this and then we didn't talk at all, and haven't at all for a long time.We make small talk on texts or something but that's it.All I'm asking, people who have come out of relationships, does she still think of me...?I know I can't and won't take her back and it'll sadly be like that, but I still do want to know if she may be thinking of me?Thanks for your help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010): Original Poster::
I know what you mean, like it might sound like I'm being big headed, but I know she won't find someone like me, I never restricted her, I didn't want to, I wanted her to live her life without someone stopping her from living it. And I always was nice to her, gave her the presents she deserved even if I never got a present in return(money problems) and always helped her stay in the right path (stay away from smoking and drugs) but the more she was at University the more she changed into someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): ORIGINAL POSTER::
Thanks q1605, I know what you mean, she did tell me she does think of me, we have no contact any more, only a hello every 5/7 days, so yeah it is real hard.
I was a real good boyfriend to her, made sure I was always nice to her, hope she figures out that she can't find anyone the same as she expects.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): I doubt that she does. I think you should stop texting her, you need to let her go, and having contact is making it harder.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 July 2010):
Sadly, I don't think so. When she cheated, she wasn't really thinking about you. I don't think she will be now, either. I never think about my ex unless I'm on here answering a question. That's the only time. I don't think she'll be thinking about you or anything like that. And you shouldn't dwell upon it either.
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