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16-17,
ishawan
writes:Sorry to post 2 questions in a day but this is important- This girl, who I am seeing tomorrow morning, is really playing with me head atm. I don't know if she's seeing me as a friend or if she's nervous. As you may have gathered from earlier questions I've only met her once, 2 1/2 weeks ago. We got on like a house on fire, and talk often on MSN n that, and get on well, but from time to time she mentions some other guys, like I asked 'whatre you up to tomorrow' and she goes 'meeting up with henry'. Makes me feel really insecure. Also I said my sister was taking me tomorrow and she said, 'why doesnt she come along too'. I mean, I thought it was a date, why the heck should I bring me sis. Is she just seeing me as a friend, or is she just really nervous?? We've had a discussion about her boobs and possible sex etc in this time, but then she says stuff like this? Naturally being a bloke, I can't read into this at all, but I'm seeing her tomorrow morning (about 12 hours). I'd love you forever if you could help! Many Thanks
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reader, TT +, writes (12 April 2008):
 you know when you initially talked she had every intention of it being a date...but the closer the time gets to meeting you again, she's becoming nervous.
I don't really think it's anything to do with you being a bloke...more the fact that msn/sms/email are very ambiguos and hard to interperet on any level....e.g "why doesn't she come along to" could literally be a joke, that had she said to you face to face, you wouldnt have minded.....but when you're trying to read into text, it's much harder.
I think you're perhaps being simply paranoid, and need to relax,and look forward tomorrow. Say she never intended to be a date? what's the worst that can happen? :)
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Doesn't sound like she thinks of it as a date if she asked you to invite your sister. Like if I was interested in a guy and had an outing planned, I would never suggest he invite his sister... She could be nervous I guess. But I doubt it. She sounds like she has a lot of guy friends, maybe she thinks of you as another friend. If you like her so much, let her know you want to be more than friends, not neccessarily by telling her, but you could do that too. You should know if it was a date 1. if she expects you to pay for her, 2. how she acts throughout the time you are hanging out, and 3. the ending of the date. Maybe go for a hug and see what happens. Good luck with everything.
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