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writes:Ok I was seeing a girl that ive known since high school but just in the past 6 months did it get serious. about a week ago we had a video chat and she told me that she didnt have "thos feelings for me" but, she tells me im a great guy and I treat her like no one else. she has come to see me out of town twice in the 6 months and is going to be driving back home with me (a 20hr drive) but says we are just friends. I thought everything was great and that we started to really get to see each other for what we are and we cuddled and slept in the same bed hold each other all night. the way she looks at me when we are alone makes me think only amazing things are in the future for us. I am deeply in love with her, NOT A CRUSH, I dream of a future with her. Can this be true that she has no feelings for me?
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reader, rivi +, writes (13 December 2010):
Honestly and truly you need to back off from her : I would say even stop seeing her altogether.
It's just causing you a whole load of grief this thing that she - as she has made v clear - does not reciprocate your desires for a full-on relationship.
FORCE yourself to go out with - or at least have friendships with - other girls. It's hard but you have to forget her and move on .
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reader, joe culls  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 hey, just take it slow and easy..continue being nice and dont cut short anything just because she said she has no feelings for you..become an asset in her life, one that she'd not want to go a day without...then one day, believe you me, she will change her perception, and if she doesnt, shift your attention partly and you'll be amazed!! good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): ~FRIEND~
Based on personal experience, she loves you as a platonic friend, nothing more. I cuddled with a friend and spent much time with her but there was a shared understanding that we were purely platonic friends.
It was basically a mutual support thing for the both of us. With your situation it doesn't seem a support thing.
God Bless.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 Well she definitely has feelings for you as a good friend, but probably not in the same way that you feel about her.
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