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Does physical appearance matter much to girls?

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Question - (17 August 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, *Jacobs writes:

Hey guys, this is mainly for teenagers but I would like to hear what others have to say about it too. Does physical appearance matter much to girls, by appearance I mean like muscle or height. Also ive talked with tons of girls that say penis size is a big deciding factor if a girl stays with a guy. Is that true or does it just depend on the person?

Thanks in advance for all answers!

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A female reader, baby-blue-eyes United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2011):

yeah when im first attracted to someone i look for tall over 5"10 dark hair dark eyes ( having said the guy i like atm has brown hair and green eyes) broad shoulders and fairly well muscled but not over the top nice eyes and smile. but when i fall in love with someone i fall for their personality. the guy i like atm i started liking because hes funny laid back and very protective and caring of me

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (17 August 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI like well groomed neatly dressed men. Height.. over 5'8 please.. muscles... not so much but a nice set of shoulders does me in...

as for a penis.. average works for me but I'm TINY and anything too big HURTS... truth be told.. for ME i prefer kisses and cuddles and a good tongue to penetration...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2011):

It matters as much to girls as it does to guys!

Me, I cant bear muscles and like 'pretty boys' who are quite skinny and around 5'10". However, the penis size thing does matter to me and I find anything under 6" a massive turn-off. All the better if it's around 8".

Alot of women will be reassuring and say that penis size does not matter but in reality, most women (not all) like a big d**k.

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2011):

k_c100 agony auntWell physical appearance matters to everyone, male or female! You dont have lasting relationships with someone you are not attracted to!

But in terms of the specific things you have mentioned, well every girl is different. I know plenty of guys who are fairly short (like 5ft 6 - 5ft 8) who have no problems getting girlfriends. Me personally (I'm 24) I like tall men, I always have done but that is just my personal taste. I normally go for a guy 6ft+ but I would never rule out a guy just because of his height.

As for muscles, again this is personal choice. I dont like really muscular men, and I would not enjoy dating a guy who was obsessed with the gym. It is nice to have a man who keeps himself in shape and exercises, but nothing mad! I dont really like 6-pack abs or big pectoral muscles, I think it looks ugly. But toned and fit is always good!

Penis size - well if it is tiny then yes, it might be a problem. But keep in mind that the average depth of a vagina is only around 4 inches, so if you are 4inches or more, you are not going to have any problems. A big penis is nice to have, but then again you dont want too big otherwise it hurts the girl. And even with a big penis, if the guy is rubbish in bed then then even a big penis is not going to save him!

It is all about how you use it, not the size. If you are good at foreplay and always make sure your girl has an orgasm (often girls struggle to orgasm through penetrative sex so the clitoris is the best way to go!) then your girl will be happy. Big penis or small penis, if you know how to use it then that is all that matters.

But everyone is different, and at the end of the day it is down to personal choice. Just like some guys like girls with big boobs, and other guys are not bothered by boobs - everyone is different and likes different things. There is no point in worrying about it, just be the best you can be, stay fit and in shape, and be yourself - that is all you can do.

I hope this helps and good luck!

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