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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Right, I have a little question: I have this...friend, and I'm sort of infatuated with her (I'm a bi grrl, she identifies as straight). Anyway, I have 2 problems: the first is, does she like me? Whenever she's round, we end up acting out...sex...stuff... I don't know how else to put it. We're both clothed. Usually, we refer to it as 'rape' instead of sex, even when we kiss one another tenderly. Perhaps it's so we can avoid admitting that it 'means' anything. But I think we both know it's 'wrong', or that my parents wouldn't approve; there have been times when we've moved onto the floor to do this as the bed rocked and made noise. It stimulates us both, but mainly her (I'm usually on top as she finds it hard to get it 'right' - her own words) as the bottom of my tummy/top of my groin rubs against her more. I think maybe she likes me but she's too scared to say in case I don't feel the same way about her and I just think it's 'a bit of fun'...oddly, this is exactly what I worry about, so I'm not sure! What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): It sounds to me like your friend isprobably confused about her sexuality. It is difficult to say whether she likes you or not, since many girls go through bi-curious phases, where they experiment on girls.
Yet, many of them are not intereted in having relationships with girls, and even condems it. She might be too scared to admit it to herself, or maybe she does not really care, and is only after the sexual gratification.
Difficult one, but if it bothers you, you should ask. Good luck!
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