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Does my size say I'm ready?

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Question - (26 November 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

well i am 16 years old turning 17 in 2 months, and i was a late bloomer in puberty, and i had to take testosteron shots to actually get moveing in puberty, its been almost year since the shots started, and i feel im ready of sex with my girlfriend, and she wants it really bad, but i would hate to not pleas her if we did, cause sadly my penis has not grown to full growth yet, and im only at about 4"-4 1/2" inch, it looks big to me, but basically i want to know if this is good enouph to satisfy her aka make her have a orgasm or just pleas her...

thanks :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007):

I wouldnt worry too much about it, just relax and go with the flow. You will definately be able to tell if she is enjoying herself or not!.

Honestly, the best sex Ive had hasnt been because of the size of his penis its been wot he did with it.

When I think about the best sex I had, I couldnt tell you what size he was come to think of it!!!.

so just go and have lots of SAFE fun!.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007):

If you are too shy about your penis (believe me, at your age it ain't gonna be bigger than that in most cases) then you can always turn the lights out.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (26 November 2007):

love-him agony auntHey hon it isnt the size that counts it is what you do with it :) all you have to do is believe in yourself and she will love it :) I hope you are ok and i wish you luck :) Feel free to mail me about anything x

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (26 November 2007):

Sandman agony auntSex, for the most part is mental. While the act itself is physical, you have to be emotionally ready for sex and the consequences of engaging in the act.

Not all consequences of sex are bad - since sex is very pleasurable. However, there are things that can happen as a result of sex and if you are engaging in the act you are consenting to yourself that you are ready and able to accept of the responsibility of whatever comes of sex.

Having said that, penis size has nothing to do with being "ready". Women will tell you (as I'm sure someone on this site might) that penis size has nothing to do with pleasuring a woman. Some claim to be more pleased by men with average or smaller than average penises than men with larger penises. So it's got nothing to do with size, but everything to do with technique. And there are many ways to make a woman orgasm without using your penis.

Learn some technique. Read books, visit websites (credible ones!) and research sex. Learn about the female body as well as your own so you know generally what is pleasurable and where to go (on the body) to give and receive pleasure.

Lesson: size isn't the end all of sexual pleasure. If you've got good technique, women will forget that your penis is 4 inches and focus more on the pleasure you give them.

Hope this helps.

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (26 November 2007):

TomWilkinson agony auntyou could please her with 2 inches mate, if you use it well enough! Size isn't everything!

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