A
male
age
36-40,
MILF_Lover
writes:my mate and his girlfriend were at a bar with me but when we left i gave them a lift to their place. i could tell from at the bar his girlfriend was giving me the eye and being all very nice. when i dropped my mate and his girlfriend off, when my mate got out of the car and walked off, his girlfriend was still in the car with me and leaned over and gave me a long kiss on the cheek. she just smiled after that and went.what was her reason for the kiss?thanks for any help. Reply to this Question |
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reader, :):):) +, writes (6 May 2008):
I think you already know the answer. It sounds as if your mates girlfriend finds you attractive and this kiss on the cheek was just letting you know that she does.
I'd try not to be left alone with her for too long in the future!
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female
reader, Kimaxsi  +, writes (5 May 2008):
Not a good place to be, I don't envy you.
She may just be a very friendly sort and want to be closer to you, b/c your important to her boyfriend. She wants to be accepted and maybe she is just trying a little too hard to be nice. She may have also had a bit much to drink out, if you were drinking.
My instinct is to proceed with caution, you definitely don't want to get involved with a mate's girl so don't even set yourself up to make a mistake, don't be alone with her, don't meet up with her without your mate present even if she swears you're just going out to pick up something for your mate, don't allow yourself to become intoxicated in any fashion when you're around her. Be extra careful if you find her attractive and feel some chemistry.
If she crosses a line, propositioning you, groping you under a table or what not be firm with her tell her you are not interested in hurting your friendship or in her advances. Don't be the insanely nice guy who gets himself in trouble, when he doesn't deserve it. Tell her when she's been inappropriate. I'd tell your mate if her advances become obvious and aggressive, I mean doesn't he deserve a girl whose loyal and into him?
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