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writes: Ok, my boyfriend is the most unromantic man on the planet (or atleast I think so..LOL) I've told him time and time again that I LOVE romance and he still hasnt put it an effort to try. My birthday is on Valentine's day so I suggested we go to Tavern on the Green (we're from NY) and he goes on and on about how I think I'm a celebrity and i just wanna go there because celebrities been there, which is totally false. I wanna go there because it seems like the perfect romamtic setting (from what I read online anyway) and I feel that I deserve a little romance, not only all the time but atleast on my birthday which happens to fall on the most romantic day of the year. I don't know, is he just not understanding me or does he not care about me enough to try and be a little more romantic and less macho?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006): There are many men out there that know just how to romance a woman. My man is one of them. Before him, I had a boyfriend just like yours and I felt unappreciated because he wasn't romantic whatsoever, he was the exact opposite. I stuck with it for 2 1/2 years, but then I couldn't take it anymore, even after talking to him about how I felt, nothing seemed to change that in him, so I gave up and now I'm the happiest I've ever been and I have been treated the way I have always wanted to be.
If your relationship don't change as to how you want it to be, there are always many more men out there for you that will treat you the way that you deserve. Don't get used to not having romance in your life, nobody deserves that if that's not what they want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006): dont worry all guys are like that.... hes is most likely madly in love with you he just doesnt kno how to express himself.. so dont worry about it... he'll come around give him time but if it stays the same try to talk to him about it.... write back to me and tells how everything goes..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006): is he worried about money, or worried that you might be?
if you think that might be part of the problem, remember that romance can sometimes be free. domino's pizza by candle light, when it's spontaneous, can sometimes be just as good.
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