A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I am totally lost. I just had six months of great passion with a great girl I met. She's 23, smart like the devil, and a pure beauty. It's not the routine yet, but we know each other very well now. Recently she told me she had a one-night flirt with a guy (living abroad); i know she liked him, but i also know she did nothing bad - beside flirting, but is it that bad?Anyway, I just found out that she is still writing to him. I know her enough to say that the way she writed to him means she's interested in him. It's only two-three mails they have exchanged, but still, i feel like stabbed in the heart;The guy is on the other side of the world, I wont be cheated.But does my girl still loves me? Please help me... I am so miserable...
View related questions:
flirt Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): You say "this guy is on the other side of the world, I won't be cheated." What if you were having a romantic relationship via email with a woman on the far side of the world, one that you had already slept with before in person? I don't think very many local girlfriends would take it so lightly. They would view it as emotional cheating and they would feel fully betrayed about it.
A
male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 June 2010):
I would suggest that if it's clear she's still interested in him, that it's best you move on. She may be interested in you just because you're the one who's closer. But if she's contacting him and still seems interested, then maybe you should move on.
...............................
|
