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Does my friend have any feelings for me? Or is she just fooling around?

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Question - (26 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2010)
A female Malaysia age 26-29, *onfusedandsuch writes:

Hey everyone. I'm 15. And I think I'm in love with my best friend(who's also female). About five months ago, we were at orchestra practice when I suddenly went like 'OMG is it just my imagination or is she just too good-looking.'Well, it took me some time to cope with this as we used to be the type of best friends that made fun of each other every day. And the next thing I knew, we were texting every day, walking out of school together, and I became her 'dear'.(students over here just do that, I dk why)

So now, I'm kinda confused. Sure, she says she loves me, sends kisses through MSN, and says things like 'To me, you're perfect' and such but she's kinda flirty and I really don't know if she's just flirting around or telling the truth. When I stare at her, she just says that she's afraid of looking into my eyes. I have no idea why. Also, she told me that she's bi(she knows I'm one too). And that she has a person that she likes. But other than that, no hints whatsoever. She also told me that she won't treat the person that she likes differently because she doesn't want that other person to know that she likes them.

Last night, we were chatting on MSN like any other day, well, read on:

Her: 'Hey, place name here asked me something that surprised me just now.'

Me: 'And that is?'

Her: 'She asked if you and I are going out.'

Her: 'As if I wanna go out with you'

Me: '/3' (I'm her 'dear' so I can do this. But it really hurt in real life as well. =( )

Her: 'I bluffed you.'

Me: '=('

And after that, I pretended that I was happy but I just couldn't smile after what she said even though she said that it's a lie. Please. Anyone. I just need your opinion. Do you think she has any feelings for me? Or is she just fooling around?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (26 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntShe is the only one that can tell you this and if you guys are great friends then you should be able to trust her enough to ask her, it does sound like she likes you but she has her gaurd up because she is not sure how you will react so take the first step and ask her does she have any feelings for you.

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