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writes:If a ex of yours sent a text like this do you think they are trying to get back with you or in your good books.The text reads 'I hope in time the hurt we both been through will heel to the better and put the past behind.'for the last 7-8months me and my ex have been at war, its calmed down alot now.We are much more civil with each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008): It shows that he cares enough about you to atleast send a text to try to make peace with you. But there was nothing in the text that indicates he may want a reconciliation with you. Guys are VERY blunt. If they want to be with you they will probably just come out and say it. And he didn't say anything about that.
But it certainly is not a bad thing what he said. And perhaps if you two are able to put the past behind and become more agreeable with eachother then maybe in time he will send you a text about reconciling. But for now all he wants is peace with you. So take his word for it and don't expect anything more. And if its too hard for you to be friends with someone that you have feelings for, I know I can't, then you should stop talking to him altogether and try to move on.
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reader, O Connor  + ♥, writes (16 January 2008):
 to be honest, no this doesnt sound like an attempt to get back together. i think he is just trying to make peace between the 2 of you, and to put the past behind you so you can both move on. he just wants to be on good terms with you after wat you have been through.
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reader, baby duck  + ♥, writes (16 January 2008):
 That does not sound like an attempt to get back together.
Whether I break up the sentence into phrases or look at it whole, I read that that he acknowledges that you both are hurt, not just him, and that he hopes that 'time is a healer'.
It is always encouraging, I think, to everyone at large, when two people can create peace. I don't know that it's contagious but it is certainly inspiring.
Peace to you both ... to all of us!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 I think he had enough and want to be on good terms with you . He could be trying to get back to you.If he sends you flowers or constantly in contact with you. That is a sign that he has moved on and want to come back to you. The ball will be at your feet.
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