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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Please help my boyfriend of 7months is going through some busniess with his babys mother, he is going through a battle to see the child.Ever snice ive meet him 7months ago there is just constant arguing between them both, and my name always gets brought up.Ive told my partner and ive told the baby mum i don't want to be involved, but i will say something if my nmae is brought up.For the 2nd or 3rd time i have had to speak to the baby's mum to get her side on things, and it always seems that my partner always says things to her to say i have said it.The baby mum even called me up at my workplace today, asking me did i want to beat her up because my boyfriend said i did. I never said that, I told her that my partner said that she has been spreading rumors about me, she said she hasn't. I had a good old chat with the baby mum, and im starting to wonder if my ex is trying to play us off, of each other, because she said she thinks my boyfriend wants to see a fight.Im only 22 my boyfriend is 45, i don't know what to think anymore, what should i do?.He also has another child from someone else and he went through the same thing with her and that frist baby mum hates him aswell.Please help....
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): With your BF's track record I would suggest you RUN!! This is a man that has no problem impregnating women and then leaving. To make matters worse he goes out of his way to make their life miserable. He is a controlling, abusive and immature man.
You seem to have more maturity then him. With your head firmly on your shoulders see what this joker is and drop him before he has a chance to get you in the same predicament as his baby's mother.
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reader, muffy  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 ok this man is too old for you to start with.and if he keeps making stuff up about you and the abys mom,then whats the use of having him.if he wants to see a fight then tell him to go to the bar and punch someone in the face.then there will be a fight and he doesnt have to watch he can be in it.lol. so as long as you talked to the babys mom,and you squared everything out,then your fine.but kick him to the curb.ok.
i hope i helped
love and kisses
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