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30-35,
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writes:Hi,i am an average young guy who always wanted a girl i could spend my entire life with but i'm the shy type.i met this girl about 5months ago in class and we have been friends since then,i we do call/text each other,then i started having feelings for her,i guessed she noticed because of the unusual care i started showing towards her.so she stoped calling me all she wanted was just my care,but she never cared about me.whenever we're together,i noticed that she doesn't talk much(like she's hiding something).this makes our conversation boring.i want to tell her how i feel but she's a kind of person that always have negative view about normal things,she always pretend to be independent,though she has friends,and she's secretive and i'm scared of telling her because she easily gets mad about little things,one thing that pisses me off about her is that she stopped calling for 2 months now,and she blames me always for not calling her.i don't know,is it that she doesn't care?
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reader, mrg123  +, writes (13 August 2011):
 I'm going to come out and say it, I think you should find someone who is better than this for yourself. I know its hard, and I know its easy for me to say that but try and step back a second and look at how shes treating you. Not very well at all, in fact, she seems to be picking you up when she pleases and dropping you when it suits as well. In that sense, I find it very unlikely she does care about you.
I understand the compulsion and I am sure you are genuine in your feelings but its precisely those she is using to manipulate you and keep you dancing to her tune. Don't give her the satisfacation, get out there and meet somebody who does really care for you and will treat you better. Good luck :)
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