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Does he want a committed relationship? Or production of more children? Or the chance to meet me for sex to make babies? Confused by him.

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Question - (19 May 2016) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2016)
A female Uganda age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am a muslim lady 30yrs of age.

Recently got talking to an older guy of around 51 yrs.actually he is a family friend, got to know him the past 5 yrs but nothing was between us til recently, he started picking interest in me.

Its now 6 months since we've started talking on phone... Not yet had a face to face date!!! Reason being he keeps calling me to meet at his crib which I am brushing off!

I told him its not safe for me but he is adamant saying that he is a mature person , he cannot do anything that i dont consent to but iv ignored his pleas.

My issue is not even that?!!!

He tells me he is serious....wants kids with me since he has only one kid with a divorced wife. I know for one he is desperate for a kid

..thats for sure from the way i know him.

The thing that bothers me more is that whenever he calls me, all he talks about is babies...

Of how i should hurry and be serious with him since we both have no much time to waste coz we getting old!!!

Its as if he only wants me to make babies for him. The guy has never even for once told me his feelings for me yet I am starting to fall for him!!!!!

I feel like i just cant drop him now....

i mean the guy is filthy rich!!!! Im in a dilemma

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A male reader, Myau New Zealand +, writes (20 May 2016):

Myau agony auntSimple really.

Tell him to marry you.

Remind him that the sooner you marry, the sooner he will have the children he wants.

He wants to take advantage of you. Dont let him.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (19 May 2016):

Honeypie agony aunt

Given your religious background I think you are skating on thin ice. If he wants more kids, are you OK with having them with him and NOT be married? To be his... broodmare?

Filthy rich or not... there is a reason he is divorced....

What do you think your family would think of all this?

And no, I don't think you are falling in love with HIM, you are falling in love with the FANTASY of a wealthy man who flatters the fire out of you.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (19 May 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntHe is filthy rich and he wants a woman who will give him children, if you choose to go down this path then you are accepting that you will be in a relationship with a man that does not love you, nor particularly want you he just wants children as he feels he is running out off time, it doesn't matter who he has children with as long as it is with someone. Look the only reason he has targeted you is because you are young and can give him what you want. My advice is to stop taking his calls, and meet someone who offers to look after and care for you.

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