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writes:I was with this guy around a year and a half ago, and i really loved him. I still believe he is the one for me and lately i have realised i still love him. He is with somebody else, they have been together two months. Me and him were together for a year. He has told me in the near past that he loves me. He knows how i feel about him, but he hasn't given me any clues to see if he still loves me. What shall i do?Please help xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Manximus  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 To be honest hun, you shouldn't really do anything. He is with someone else now and you really should not come between them. You are in danger of earning yourself a reputation if you become involved with them.
If you really feel that strongly about him and if he has told you that he loves you, then maybe in time something will develop.
But even if he tries it on with you now, make sure you make it clear that you are off limits while he has a girlfriend.
Your age is between 13-15, so you are both still really young at the moment. There is a big difference between love and infatuation and what you probably understand love to be at this point in your life.
I thought I was in love when I was 13/14, but as you grow older, you realise just what love is all about.
I do sypathise with how you feel though, but you need to try to remain distant and find other things to occupy your mind. If it is meant to be...it will be.
Take care x
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reader, anjaan  +, writes (16 June 2008):
u my dear are fooling ur self n urself only,,,,,,, its called self delusion ask urself if really loved why is he with somebody else,? some people say that u dont know wat u hav untill u lose it, in ur case this seems to be so move on look around appreciate all u hav n never look back coz if we keep looking back we can never move frward
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): do you want to ruin what they have, so you can be happy?
you need to ask him whether who he's with at the moment is making him happy, if he is, then walk away.
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reader, tammye17  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 i have been there and if he reaaly loved you he would be with you......if you decide to follow him you'll end up as the other girl on the side...and end up braking your heart...let him miss you and let him see what he's loosing ...if its for you its for you.....let time tell you:)
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