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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I hope someone can help I fell out badly with someone I became close to Wasn't a relationship but was on its way there but then because of how it ended we ended up not talking for 2 yearsThen he gets in touch and messages sporadically but nothing elseThen he got in touch this year to meet for a coffee It was ok but I messaged after and he was cool and even on sending me a birthday message was coolNow I'm confused.He said he wanted to get to know me again but doesn't want me on Facebook His good friend says he's being childish But that was 9 weeks ago Then he messages me last week said hoped I was well and gave me his new number ?I didn't respondWhat should I do ?
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (27 March 2016):
 Do you WANT another acquaintance? Do you want HIM as an acquaintance?
If you do, then regard him as such. AN ACQUAINTANCE, no more.
If you don't, wish him well and block him.
He doesn't want you on Facebook because he doesn't WANT anything serious or even a real friendship, but he'd like to keep you around in his life.
IF you are hoping this will lead to anything relationship like... I think you wasting your with with this dude. He isn't looking to date you.
Look elsewhere for a BF.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (27 March 2016):
 I think he just wants to mend fences. You didn't talk for two years. Now he is saying that he feels OK about the past and is comfortable being friendly. I don't read this as an invitation to get back together. It is just a wave hello from an old friend.
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