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asho320
writes:When me and my bf have sex its over too quickly he always cums and i'm like ''wait for me!'' after he cums he goes floppy and he cant get it up (i have to wait up to an hour for him to get it up again) this is very frustrating for me because i very very rarely orgasm. he says he needs food and cannot get it up when he's very hungry and tired. is this true?
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reader, Stanley Cup  +, writes (25 July 2007):
Yes, I think he needs to do some eating before he gets it up...the first time he gets it up. In other words, he needs to give you some oral stimulation before you two do the nasty. Have you tried foreplay? I know that many women don't reach orgasm while having sex, so you may need to engage in some oral and manual stimulation beforehand.I don't know how you can tell him to do this, but he might need to shake hands with one-eyed willie (i.e. masturbate) before the two of you meet. That might help him last a little bit longer.
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reader, daglish  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 now that really sounds selfish of him and very frustrating for you. This could easily deterirate any relationship however make no mistake,its curable. Food is one of the solutions thats if we are talking abt aphrodisiacs here. But not jst eating to ones's full. Its very important that u talk to this one minute man about your disatisfaction and get him to accept that he has a problem . The easiest advice i can give for the start to avoid this premature ejaculation is, try out Woman on top so that you may be in posn to take control andrun things. this way u can tell when he is abt to cum so that u can slow down abit to ristrain him from climaxing. Resume after a short interval and when u feel like cuming feel free to ride him hard and fast as you can so that both of you can hve a throw.. Get back to me when this works coz u will be amazed.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (24 July 2007):
 No i don't think food has got anything to do with the fact it takes him an hour to get it back up.
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (24 July 2007):
 could also be that he has premature ejaculatory problems. Not easy for a guy to admit that one- although it's one of the most common sexual issues a guy can have, it's also the most embarrassing for them. There are exercises you can do to help him last longer, if he's up for that - it also makes the pleasure longer for him. You can research it online. :)
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reader, flower girl +, writes (24 July 2007):
 Load of rubbish i think, he is just selfish, gets what he wants and can't be bothered to see you through.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Danny07 +, writes (24 July 2007):
 no. lol eating has got nothing to do with it. he has to work on lasting longer, tell him to regulary masterbate.. or you do it for him and when you have sex to pace himself. tell him not to think of sexy forts, and after he has cum'd for the first time he needs atleast a 10 mins break. not a hour :) dno if this is helpful. but i tried :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): Never heard that one before!!
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