A
female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:I was recently contacted by the man I dated (almost 20 years ago) before my husband. Our relationship was not that long, but very strong. We had a lot of fun, but also went through something traumatic together. He had to go back to his country for six months right after and when he came back I wasn't sure how I felt. He proposed; I turned him down and hurt him badly. He called for a year after that, but I was then dating the man I am married to now. He contacted me by first e-mailing my husband and then me. He called me and e-mailed me after the initial contact quite a few times in one day and then again the next. On the one hand it seems like it is on the up and up, but on the other it seems a bit excessive and intense. He keeps mentioning that he is happily married which I am glad for, but I am happily married and don't feel the need to repeat it over and over. He also has said his wife is moody, but then follows with how happily married they are. I'm not sure what is going on here. Does he really just want to be friends? Reply to this Question |
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reader, auvi  +, writes (2 December 2007):
he is somehow trying to initiate an extra marital affair with you... so, u know what's the best to do !
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reader, Richard_EMids  +, writes (2 December 2007):
 Hi - my opinion for what it's worth is that he still wants you, and is looking for any way that he can be in contact with you. His ultimate goal is for him to and you to be together. He still thinks you are "the one." It's a shame really.
I might be wrong , but that's what it appears to me.
If you are happy, then don't give him any signs that encourage him.
Take care
Richard
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