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female
age
16-17,
xnotfortheworldx
writes:I met a guy about two months ago. We recently started hanging out, and ditching classes together. He's 4 years older than me, and has a girlfriend one year older than him. He doesn't say he likes me or anything, but in a way it seems like it. We talk about sex, and his girlfriend and my relationship-life. He pities me for never having had a boyfriend and not knowing how to kiss, whilst he's slept with over 70 girls. I know that would make him a man-whore, but in a way I understand because he's had a pretty bad past. He waits for me before my fifth period and has offered to drive me home after school. He even asked me to the Halloween dance. (But he couldn't go, so he showed up at the school on the night of the dance just to tell me that he couldn't stay because of his dad, which I thought was sweet...)He gives me pecks on the cheek or forehead sometimes and he always hugs me when he sees me. We like a lot of the same music and stuff. I'm not sure if I like him, but I don't know where he and his girlfriend stand in all this. Could he be just trying to work me up to get some from me or might he actually be interested in me? :\
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reader, rcn  + ♥, writes (4 November 2007):
 Of course. Female will (and males too) decreases under the influence of alcohol. Easy pickings.
Take care, and be careful.
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female
reader, xnotfortheworldx +, writes (4 November 2007):
xnotfortheworldx is verified as being by the original poster of the question I forgot to mention that his girlfriend has graduated and therefore no longer attends my high school. (They've been dating for a little over a year now.) Most of the girls he's slept with he/they were drunk at the time or/and were one-night-stands. He's only taken the virginity of 7 girls. (Which still seems like a lot to me...) I'm almost fifteen and he's almost nineteen. He lost his virginity at fourteen.
I completely agree with you though, RCN and I appreciate your response.
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male
reader, rcn + ♥, writes (3 November 2007):
I would say "stay away from him" or "be careful" Four years older and 70 different girls, he's a "virgin slayer", kind of like the "vampire slayer" but they focus on gaining trust of virgins, pop that cherry, then "who were you again". I'd be worried about him. Don't spend time with him alone. I knew one of these in school "not me" I never had the guts to treat women like crap, but by the time we were out of high school he's taken well over 100 virgins. In school there was only one girl I dated who he had not gotten to first, and she became my wife. He got her after we were married. He ended up getting his. He's strung out on crack and looks like crap. He'd been with a girl now going on 20 years, and he does not have a problem sleeping with someone else, then going home and sleeping with his girlfriend right afterward. That's a man whore. Even though his upbringing was bad, it doesn't make you fall on 70 women naked. Be careful. I know many women that wish they had someone to tell them to be careful around this guy I knew.
Take care, and remember your body is yours, your choice, no one else can choose what you do with it. If anyone takes what they shouldn't, be the strong one to stand up and put the guy behind bars. I still think there should be a law that says, you rape, we put it on the chopping block and instant sex change.
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