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Does he hate me? Did I do something wrong?

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Question - (11 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *ife_sux writes:

There is a guy I met this summer, he was just so amazing. At first he annoyed me with several of his childish gestures. But I dealt with it. We appologized to eachother then became friends, sorta. The last night at the camp, he opened up to me a bit, he told me about how he was still in love with his girlfriend. When he did, it almost killed me.

The strangest thing is that all of his friends kept asking me if I liked him. And 2 asked if i was his girlfriend, my friends even started asking too. Even after we appologised, he kept teasing me (not mean, funny/playful), such as shining a flashlight in my eyes indoors, from a distance. Also whenever I tried to talk, not flurt, with another guy, he totally flipped out. He would intrude in, and make the guy I was trying to speak with feel awkward.

When the leaders decided we would play night games, they told us to be outside in 5 minutes. We were on opposite teams before he did this too. But when I was giong on the field(there are some rocks, and a bit of a down-hill to go on first), he shined his flashlight so I would'nt fall and hurt myself; then he fell himself. It was kind of funny but I did'nt laugh like his other friends. I even offered him a hand up, but he just glared at those who laughed and got up himself.

The next day he avioded me completely. I wanted to tell him how I felt, but every time I got within sight of him, either my friends would somehow drag me away, or he would turn and walk away quickly. Does he hate me? Did I do something wrong? Please help.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntHe felt embarressed because he fell thats all, just give him a lil time and space and then continue as normal he may be avoiding you because he might have a crush on you or be trying to sort how he feels out just give him some space

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (11 December 2007):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntI think he felt embarrassed in front of you and is trying to avoid you.

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