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Does he genuinely like me, or is he just being a nice guy?

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Question - (21 December 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 December 2006)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey there,

I met this guy Nov. 17th. He's a bit older than me. Normally, I'm a very shallow person but when I saw him, looks were the last thing that I thought of. I'm starting to really like him, but I don't know if he likes me in return. Like he calls me and everything, but it's the way he talks to me sometimes, like he's bored or something. I just don't understand because normally I can read people, but I can't seem to read him.

We joke around alot, but his jokes are more hurtful than laughable. We have little tickle fights, which I don't mind. I find that they're really cute. And he's very sweet too. He won't even let me open the door myself, he has to do it for me =) I know that this is going to sound silly but whenever I write my name with someone else's, like this : Bob + Frank, I find that it seems to jinx the relationship. I guess it's the way he talks sometimes, and the way he jokes around that keeps me second guessing. So my question is, is it possible for himt o like me in return?. is he just being a nice guy? What could this all mean?. Should I be second guessing?. I'm SO confused!!! HELP!

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A female reader, Sexybum United Kingdom +, writes (27 December 2006):

Sexybum agony auntHiya

After reading your question I'm not really sure what to say... None of us on this site can tell you if he likes you or not because none of us know him.... Yes it is possible that he likes you..... but in my OPINION he is just playing a game... having a joke and trying to see how far he can get. I don't think he is as serious about you as you are about him.

I don't like the way you say his jokes can hurt you... that doesn't sound like man that fancies you. Or if he's not doing it intentionally then it still doesn't mean it's right. The fact is that you are unsure and the way he talks to you hurts you so I really wouldn't go there if I were you.... but this is just my opinion.......

I hope it helps

From Sexybum xoxoxooxoxoxox

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