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writes:Does EX-Girlfriend want to Get Back Together?My Ex broke up with me (a week before I was going to break up with her, lol) late summer last year (Dated for 3 months). I'm 33, She is 38. (No kids, tries to be 28 instead of 38). She started dating another guy (rebound) about 2 to 3 weeks later. She's been in that relationship since then while I have been single and dating a lot. We live very close to each other and met through a mutual friend. Ran into her the other day while running errands and I asked her how her dating life was going. She proceeded to tell me how her current boyfriend is controlling and not a good conversationalist, "Like I was". Also told me that she was thinking of breaking up with him the previous week. What's the deal with that? Needless to say I basically told her in general terms that I didn't want to get back into a relationship. I'm a singer, I get plenty of women. Question is, why bash rebound boyfriend to me? Does she want to get back together and is she testing the waters? Additional Detail, I had also seen her at a friends tennis match (she is on the team, that's how we met) a couple of weeks ago and all went well in terms of conversation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): I wouldn't worry about what your girlfriend thinks about you, it's obvious she has moved on with her life and knows what she wants, I would guess that she will dump this guy and find somebody more to her liking. It is not your problem, like you said you have plenty of women, I always think 'more is less' at least next time she will be having a 'quality' relationship, which is far better than 'quantity' in my view. Sex for women is much better and more satisfying as part of a loving relationship, much much better, men who shag around should take notice of this! You asked how her dating is and she told you straight.
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