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13-15,
anonymous
writes:Does anyone know anything you can say to a guy to make him think sexually, without being blatant?I really need something to say a guy to make him think sexually without it being totally obvious, in fact it has to be really subtle but clear enough for him to get the point... Plus it's through text and online. Not face to face so I can't change my tone.I just really need something I can say that is definitely flirty but I could argue that it's not flirty. If you understand what I mean.Any ideas would be great..Cheers..
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reader, Namatjira  +, writes (17 February 2008):
I know at your age it is normal to being exploring sexual feelings but do be very careful. Enjoy growing up but do not be in too much of a hurry to do so.
As for giving hints, remember that most guys are really bad at reading hints. It is better to be more open. But do remember that at your age you can get someone into a lot of trouble whether you like them a lot or not, so be fair huh and wait a while before getting sexually explicit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): You're too young to be in a online or texting situation which revolves around sex.Ask your mother or probably your father preferrably what you could suggest to this person.It is dissappointing that you, at your age are focused on this. You sound like a very, young and just trying to be grown up.What will happen if this is what gives you a thrill, is that when you grow up, men will treat you badly as you are already trying to play silly games.Put it this way, if you don't know what to say, you have no business trying to find out. This type of knowledge comes from experiance and not as a game to wind someone up.
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reader, childof1981  + ♥, writes (12 February 2008):
 I am going to give you some hard advice.
Do not attempt to hide your intent by sending mixed signals. I know it's the emotionally safe route and you want a way to back out if the feelings are not mutual but it will cause confusion. My advice is to be subtle but NEVER unclear as to your intent.
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reader, mandabaaby  +, writes (12 February 2008):
 Ask him what he thinks of certain sexy clothing... and if he asks why then say you were thinking of buying a pair but you needed an opinion or something like that.. that will make him think
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol! I know that person I'm targetting the flirty comment at. It's not someone I met online lol!! I know better than that! lol
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 February 2008):
 All the guys I know pretty much think sexually all the time. It's the nature of the beast. Be careful online dear.
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