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anonymous
writes:am i the only girl who doesnt mind her boyfriend looking at and having porn?
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reader, dude1  + ♥, writes (5 June 2008):
 I feel the same way as orange_bunny.
Soul searching is key to understanding ones self. You can't do it for another, but you can with knowledge and experience, have a better understanding of it.
I think men are unaware that they need the same connection that women do. When women don't have the connection with their mate, they are less interested in sex. For men, sex resemble a quick fix, and I attribute the act myself as being born (the ejaculation) and giving oral as being feed. This is the best I can come up with, it is a work in progress. I try to understand my own emotions and actions. I do have a hard time explaining them, but understand them in my head.
I have noticed for myself that what I don't get from my wife, I seek in a different way, masterbation is one of them.
Emotions are very dificult to figure out. Men especially push them aside because society has taught them to do so, otherwise there wimps. Once emotions are pushed aside, it is dificult answering why you do or feel that way.
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reader, Heidi328 +, writes (4 June 2008):
 I HATE the fact hat my bf looks at porn! He already promised me he would stop but he hasn't. I am deeply hurt, feel betrayed and I don't know what to do. I love him so much and that's why thi shurts me, because he lied and now I feel he doesnt respect my feelings. Not all girls have problems with pornand their bf's. But i do. It is disgusting, degrading and hurtful to many women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): also you girls some times want to masterbate with a idol its not like your boyfrend is always complaning you love that idol and your porn more the you like me i dont think so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): What the fu** its not cheating to masterbate withot you most of the time men arnt horny when you are then right before your horny they cant take it aney more DO I HAVE TO SAY IT A AGAIN im sure that they would gladly watch it with you and please dont get all offensive just the way guys are we like porn .
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 May 2008):
 To each his/her own perspective.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions.
It is a matter of respecting the other's opinions.
But than it is not right to impose one's opinions on others.
Take it or leave it.
Don't like , don't read it because I don't reply to those who belittle or insult other's intelligence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): I think too many women just get too focused on comparing themselves to the other women in the porn instead of getting excited by the sexuality in the whole thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): I do. I feel that watching porn is a sort of cheating. I would never picture having sex with someone else, as I find it...to be cheating. I feel the same about my boyfriend masturbating to anything that isn't me.
That being said, we have watched porn together before to come up with ideas of positions, and activities we could do with each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): Well quite a bit of the time men are horny wen your not and a lot of the time the urge becomes to great to withstand and for men it slowly stacks up until uuuuuu ya well uuuuuuuu .
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): The ever-going arguement.. Porn or no porn? Noel Edmonds' next new show.
Personally, although I can understand why guys would find it a big turn on, why wouldn't they want to save themselves all for their girlfriend or wife? But a great alternative is watching porn together, and this can even spice up your sex life.
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reader, TasteofIndia + ♥, writes (10 May 2008):
 I don't mind at all! Me and my man have a great relationship and I don't mind if he makes sweet love to himself as long as he still has steam for me! I have confidence in myself (and our relationship), I know he thinks I'm the sexiest gal in the universe... the porn for him is just a stimulus, and I could care less.
I think it's all good, sister. As long as you aren't feeling bad, he's not feeling bad and the porn isn't getting in the way of having the best relationship you can have together.
We're cool, sweetness!
xx India
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): Not at all. I suppose i understand those people who don't like the idea of their other half looking at porn because they feel then that they are not enough for that person, But i'm quite confident in myself with things like this and i don't mind at all. I'd rather he look at porn than go out and find someone else to satisfy him-there's a large difference there.
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reader, starfairy + ♥, writes (10 May 2008):
 I would mind if he was watching it and masturbating alone...Generally I have always 'shared' porn with oyfriends, why not try that? Introduce it into your sex life...
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