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Does all this mean I'm gay?

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Question - (25 September 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2009)
A female Bhutan age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im deeply in love with a girl at school and I fall in love her all over again when I see her and think about her. Also I get really excited(down there) and my nipples erect. I have never liked anyone this much before but i want to know if i am a lesbians. I know i should know but im only sixteen and this has been going on for at least two years and I always think about kissing her. When I read about gay love i get all warm inside and get butterflies but with straight love I dont. AM I GAY?

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A female reader, Ybamylloh United Kingdom +, writes (29 September 2009):

sounds like you are gay, but theres nothing wrong with that what so ever you should be proud of it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2009):

You are probably gay but you might just be bisexual, anyways the thing is that you have a major crush on this girl, so what you going to do about it xxxxxx

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A female reader, jorjax1x United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2009):

jorjax1x agony aunti am a teen aswell

can i say your hormoans are allover the place your a teen but if you are thinking about coming out as a lesbian dont be a bisexual first then u can like boys and girls

answer me this

do u see urself setling down with a girl or a boy ?

write back

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A female reader, obsticalfree United States +, writes (25 September 2009):

Look- some people have sexual urges when very young and know exactly what they are attracted to, others it takes a bit longer to feel anything, whilst others seem to remain confused for a really long time. I wouldn't be too concerned you are at the time where hormones are raging and you are experiencing new and sometimes confusing sensations, feelings and reactions . In my personal opinion you don't need to 'define' your sexual orientation and especially at such a young age with loads of experiences ahead of you. I have seen people do that ie. announcing they are gay or completely straight and then make switches later. Nobody can tell YOU whether you are gay, straight , bi (or any other label) as you go through things and experiences you will figure out for yourself what it is you like and want :). Nothing to worry about just enjoying getting to know you !

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