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36-40,
anonymous
writes:me and this guy from work constantly flirt and get on really well..... everyone has been asking me what is going on between us and whether i want a relationship with him... but i honestly dont know!!! i think this is because i dont know how he feels, people have asked him but he wont tell them and just says " it's my business". how can i raise the issue with him, and find out???
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007): You don't ask him. You wait for him to ask you. Trust me, if he's interested in moving things forward, he'll be bold enough to go for it. In the meantime, enjoy the attention but don't take it too seriously. Some men who are in serious relationships, like to be overly friendly, and flirtaeous with other women so they feel like they still have options available. In his mind, he may just feel his actions are "friendly" while you think they're flirtateous. Just wait it out. If he plans on taking it to the next level, he will. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2007): Don't fish in the company pond.
I don't care how wonderful he is, the fact is, if you pursue it and it goes bad... You'd have to find a new job or suffer seeing his face there EVERYDAY. Ugh. Trust me, been there, done that, and it ain't pretty.
If you decide to pursue it, then just ask him. This isn't junior high school. Girls are allowed to ask boys out. Nobody will stone you. Unclench, ask him, and start perusing the job ads.
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