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Do you think this makes me a bad person?

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Question - (27 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *hels123 writes:

Ohkay,Ive just gotton back from my best friends house and The last time I was there, I had gone half way with her cousin which is 16, Im 13 and yea,half way means he went in me half way and thats all.. I know I made a mistake and Im sorry..DOnt we all..well anyways i havent been to her house in over 5 months and I have just gotton back from her house a few hours ago and well I couldnt resist. The day that i was going ot her house,my mom told me she could trust me cause she knows Im boy crazy and Well I told her She could but I went downstairs to hang with her cousin and try to be friends with him but he was a fwb the last time I was over and he brought the subject up about sex an dI told him no because I knew I would not do it because of my mom but He wouldnt leave me alone about it so I finally gave in but we didnt have sex, I told him the only thing he was getting was a hand job and I had never done that so I did it half way and then I stopped because I knew it was wrong so I went upstairs and went to bed....does this make me a bad person?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (27 July 2010):

Honeypie agony auntIt makes you curious, not a bad person. But you need to start thinking BEFORE you act.

If you tell someone NO, then mean it. If they don't respect you (keep pressing you or keep asking you) then walk away. Stop putting yourself in a situation you can not control.

Actions speak louder then words. You know that expression? It means WHAT you DO shows others what you mean/feel/think more then just telling them.

Stay away from that 16 year old cousin, and be safe.

STOP beating yourself up, OK? But realize that YOU are responsible for YOUR actions.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (27 July 2010):

RAINORFIRE agony auntIf he went in you thats all the way.. this seems to have you worked up quite a bit but dont fret you seem like an average teen not a Bad person,,, bad people hurt others have you hurt any one... ok so you told your mom one thing and did something else shes just worried about your safety... doesnt make you a bad person.

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