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Do you think she knows my intention? What should I do now?

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Question - (12 December 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2013)
A male United States age 30-35, *bx123 writes:

Hello guys,

There is this girl in my class that I like and I've developed the courage to walk up to her one day and talk to her. The first time I spoke to her I made small talk with her about the class we are in together. The second time time we spoke about how short the class was that particular day. Whenever I walk into the class and she is there she is quick to wave tome and say Hi. Sometimes I look at her and we just catch each other looking and she would smile and I would smile back. Today was the last day of class and when I finished my exam I was waiting in the hallway for a friend and then she walked up to me and then we started talking about the exam. Then, I changed the subject and asked her what are her plans for Christmas, and she told me her plans. She ask me the same in return and I told her. I didn't want to miss out on any opportunity on getting to know this girl so I asked her to let us exchange number and she did give me her number. We part ways and then I text her my name so she could get my number, but she never responded

Do you think she knows my intention?

What should I do now?

Do you think she was giving me her number to be nice?

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (14 December 2013):

CindyCares agony aunt Responded to what ? You texted her your NAME, what is she supposed to answer to that, her middle name ? her surname ?

Actually you want HER to take the initiative and , basically, text you first, but - she won't have it. Maybe she is shy, maybe she is traditional and wants the guy " do the chasing ", or maybe she just thinks that if you are really interested ( and not just friendly or flirty ) you will show a little efffort and engage her in (text ) conversation.

I think she knows, at least she imagines your intention, but , since you are the one who wants the opportunity for etc.etc., and you are the one who asked her for exchanging numbers, it won't kill you being a little proactive, and text her wishing her Merry Xmas, asking her what she did on Xmas day or what she is doing on New Year's Eve, or whichever other platitude ( or , hopefully, NOT platitude ) of your choice. If THEN she does not reply to you, then you can assume she is not that into you- but at least, get the ball rolling first !

FWIW, I am pretty sure she will answer :).

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